Do I have a disability, or am I a person with a disability?

Disability is not inherent to the individual; it is imposed by society, as per the definition.

Therefore, I can say I have an impairment, but I'm disabled by society when it puts barriers in my way that prevent me from participating.

This distinction is crucial: I am not defined by disability, but I can be a person with a disability in the context of societal barriers.

Understanding the difference between 'having' and 'being with' something is key. I am 'with' a disability in association with societal obstacles. I cannot 'have' something that is external to me.

For me, living with my impairment is manageable, but I refuse to live with or accept disability, as that would mean accepting segregation, exclusion, and discrimination. - Fanie du Toit