Selective hearing, or not?

Saying "you have selective hearing" to someone who have a hearing impairment can be hurtful and dismissive of their experiences.

This phrase implies that the person is intentionally choosing not to hear or listen, which is not the case. Hearing impairments affect people's ability to hear certain sounds, frequencies, or conversations, but it's not a matter of choice.

Using this phrase can:

1. Blame them for communication breakdowns

2. Minimize their challenges

3. Ignore the complexities of hearing impairments and functional limitations

4. Come across as insensitive or dismissive

Instead, focus on:

1. Understanding the impact of hearing loss and specific communication needs

2. Asking about their preferred communication method

3. Being patient and supportive

4. Using clear and accessible language, speech-to-text transcriptions, assistive listening devices, and/or alternate methods of communication

You can help create a more welcoming environment for everyone by being supportive and inclusive,